Why is it when we speak to men half of the time they look at us like we are some alien race invading their manhood. I don’t understand why is it that communication or plain interaction develops so many different responses. For instance a man will tell a woman ” Its just sex” and we hear ” I love you and cant live without you”… Women tell them ” I need to talk to you ” and they ” blank out”.
Strangely enough I believed that men and women speak totally different languages and that even in the best relationship miscommunications happens. This often happens because we as human beings do not know what it is we really what or need 95% of the time. Then having to justify half of the utter bullshit we do in life because if this is not done we may never trust in ourselves.
Now men think about one thing at one time and only that , women on the other hand we think about the past, present and future all in one. Then we wonder why we are not on the same page. We probably will never get on the same page but it does help if we actually become bilingual. Now become bilingual require several degrees ranging for the Arts of Bullshit to the development of an emotion. Now it is key for us to dive right into these studies so that mastery can emerge so we don’t feel like we like we are in a never ended war of two parallel lines that will not ever meet.